Are You Part of the Movement
or Part of the Resistance?
Owen Williams
ANY RELATIONSHIP CAN WORK.
In The Relationship Revolution, Owen Williams calls on couples to stop working in their relationship and start working on it.
When
couples work in their relationship, they compete against each other.
They justify themselves, play the blame game, and compare each other’s
level of effort. It's not long before they say, “A relationship that
takes this much work isn't worth saving.”
When couples work on
their relationship, they co-create the relationship they both dream of.
Their focus is on the needs of the relationship. Instead of fixating on
their individual shortcomings, they concentrate on the potential of
what they can build together.
Then, as they discover what their
relationship needs, each individual is naturally drawn to what keeps
them from offering their best to the relationship. Before long the two
– individually and together – evaluate their beliefs about themselves
and the world.
While relatively untroubled relationships can
easily fall apart under the first approach, relationships marked by
infidelity, loss, betrayal, or long-term disconnection can make the
journey back to health under the second.
Welcome to the revolution.